Thursday, September 30, 2010

Finding Your Flock

Firstly, I really appreciated what Sarah and Tori had to say to our class. They were both honest, and even though it was a bit intimidating, it was honest and real. I know I came into college thinking that I would handle just like I did high school, because I breezed right on through high school and I was able to juggle multiple things at once. Had I known then what I've learned so far, I would have thought a bit more wisely.
     If I were to be asked to speak to a group of freshman knowing only what I know now, I would have a mouthful. I would begin with telling them to go on and throw the idea of music in college being as simple as it may have been in high school out of the window. I was not ready for the challenge that music would provide for me. The classes in themselves are difficult and time consuming, and let's not even discuss how many hours of practice you have to commit. I would also warn them of the dreaded time management, my main struggle. You must learn to manage your time wisely and prioritize. Social life can be put aside for the week and all of your time needs to be dedicated to doing your work and practice. Being an athlete and also a Cello player, I have learned how crucial time management can be. Use a planner! That has saved my grade more than once already. I would end by saying that you always have to be prepared for what college may have in store for you, and of course enjoy yourself. Don't let the stress overcome you. College is manageable.

6 comments:

  1. I completely agree with you Joy. I expected music and academics in college to be a lot like high school and I treated them that way at first, then I learned better. I was really stressed my first few weeks of school but after being kicked in the butt I realized that I need to change the way I'm approaching and doing things. I'm trying to time manage myself and not get involved in so many activities that I have like no time to do anything. Those have been helping a lot.

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  2. OMG JOY! I really agree with this..I came into college thinking that,"O it's not going to be that bad, I got this," but little did I know I was totally wrong!! But after one gets through the first month or so, things don't really look as bad. I know for me I have to keep pushing myself to practice and to do homework when I have absolutely nothing else to do. So with that being said, great advice and everyone should read this blog, I'm sure it would help each and every one of them.

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  3. I love how blunt and honest you are about the difficulty of being a music major. And I agree that prioritizing is VERY important.

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  4. I thought the same thing as you before I came here, and using a planner defnitely helped me as well.

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  5. Joy,
    I am amazed that our student athletes are able to balance the demands of PSOM and athletics. You offer some great advice. Keep up the good work.

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  6. I am really impressed that you are able to keep up with everything! I think this is great because people want others to just get to the point.
    :D
    SK

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